Study: Strip Clubs And Strippers Beneficial to Men’s Health

The first thing you notice in the VIP dining room of the Penthouse Club in Sauget are the chairs. Actually, scratch that. The first things your eyes adjust to in the near pitch-black darkness is the stuffed lion, the moose bust over the fireplace and the stone grotto in the corner. Then you notice the chairs.

The seats dwarf the tables. Michael Ocello, president of the VCG Holdings (the publicly traded company that owns the Penthouse Club and 18 other adult nightclubs in 10 states), tells me that the company had the chairs specially made.

“The arms are reinforced and have a cushion perfectly sized for a woman to take a seat,” says Ocello, who has our server — a petite blonde named Tiffany in fishnet stockings and a corset — demonstrate. “See. This way you can have two women seated with you and they’re not on your lap. Which can be fun — until your legs fall asleep.”

But Ocello didn’t invite me to the Penthouse Club today to discuss furniture. No, he has something much more interesting to report: the study that found strip clubs like his can be good for your health.

“We were very surprised by the findings,” says Ocello, whose VCG Holdings commissionedEmpire Research to conduct the study. “Besides the obvious — beautiful women — we wanted to know what attracted men to adult clubs. We always knew that our clubs made men feel good, but we didn’t expect the researchers to come back with medical findings that our clubs can also be healthy for you.”

Then again, if you think about it, it makes sense, says Ocello. “As a society, 54 percent of us feel overwhelmed with work. We only have 16 hours or so of leisure time a week and more and more of that is interacting with people via Facebook or the Internet. We’re social creatures. We need human touch, human contact.”

The study suggests that strip clubs can lower Cortisol, the so-called “stress hormone” that can lead to heart disease, while also boosting Oxytocin, the so-called “love hormone.” Moreover, strip clubs tend to increase testosterone which naturally declines as men age.

“They’ve done saliva tests that show that men’s testosterone increases when they’re surrounded by beautiful women,” says Ocello. “Why is that? Because there’s no fear of rejection. The women are going to talk to you. They’re going to flirt with you. That’s how it works. The question is: would you rather go to the gym and do push ups to increase testosterone, or spend her time here surrounded by beautiful women?”

So, how long til doctors begin prescribing a trip to the strip club to their patients?

“I don’t know, but if you look at the footnotes to our study, it comes from them,” says Ocello. “Our research is from the medical community!”

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Safe sex? There’s an app for that

Being exceptionally smart and informed readers, I know you all must exchange doctor-certified proof of your STD status before hopping into bed with a new partner. What’s that you say? No? You rely on your partner’s word?

Well, of course you do. It can be difficult enough to bring up the STD conversation in the first place, and bringing paperwork into bed doesn’t do much to ignite the mood. It’s also highly impractical: How many of us hit the town on a Friday night with test results folded up in our wallet or stuffed in our purse? Besides, in the age of Foursquare check-ins at STD clinics, the idea seems downright absurd.

Now technology has closed the gap in the form of a new app, MedXSafe. You get tested and then your doctor vouches via the service that you’re STD free. Next time you find things heating up, you can “bump” phones with your partner to share the proof of your negative test, which provides copious opportunities for corny come-ons — say, “Before we bump uglies, let’s bumpphones.” (You can have that one for free. You’re welcome.)

Keep in mind, the usual STD-test caveats apply here: Just because a partner tested negative on Monday doesn’t mean that they didn’t contract something by Friday, and people can get false negatives.

This all might reasonably raise Big Brother-y fears, but the company behind the app says the data is “encrypted end-to-end” and that you alone are in charge of who sees your information. Plus, the service never shares positive results, only negative results. Still, I fully expect to one day tell my awed children, “I know it’s hard to believe, but back in my day we didn’t have a database of potential dates’ STD status, sexual performance reviews and DNA analysis.”

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Sex Confession: “I Attended My Very First Orgy”, Alyssa from Philadelphia

I spontaneously took a bus from Philadelphia to NYC one Friday for a single reason: My friend Lexi was attending an orgy and I wanted to check it out. It was just a college themed party, so at first I blew it off. As a second semester freshman I’d already been to my fair share of frats and house parties and I didn’t think this so called orgy party would be fruitful, or even fun. But Lexi assured me that kids at her school “committed” to these sorts of things, so I admit, my curiosity was piqued.images (6)

Casual (but responsible!) sex with strangers has never been taboo to me. While I know there’s a time and place for romantic sex, at this point in my life, I much prefer the no-strings-attached kind. It beats the awkward meeting in class the next day or the weird limbo of expectations that can occur with a friend-with-benefits for whom you suddenly develop feelings. Sure, critics say casual sex is just as awkward when you unexpectedly bump into your one-night stand walking down the street to class, but, hey, that’s what iPods and cell phones were half invented for right? And given the large number of students on my campus, one-night stands with neither expectations nor awkward repercussions are not uncommon. All the same, I’d never actually experienced anything like a party with pure unadulterated sex before.

More than anything, I wanted to see the inner workings of an orgy — I wanted to know what orgy sex looks like. Because while I’m a fan of casual sex, it has to be for the right reason — meaning, for the sake of the sex itself. It can’t be because I’m lonely or hurting or need my self-worth validated by outside sources. I see this kind of casual sex all over my campus — would an orgy be a way to enjoy a purer form of casual sex? Sure, plenty of college parties end in casual sex, but I had never attended a party where the explicit goal was sexual pleasure. Would the party be filled with desperate girls with daddy issues? Annoying frat boys? Or legitimately interesting people who were comfortable with their sexuality?images

Getting dressed for the party was the first step. It seemed so simple — you showed up with no clothing, but both Lexi and I agreed that although the rather large bottle of Skyy Vodka we’d been sharing was almost empty, we hadn’t lost enough inhibitions yet to step through the door in the nude.

The invitation stated that a shot would be required for every article of clothing one decided to wear to the party. Clearly if we still had our inhibitions now, they wouldn’t be an issue inside the party. We briefly flirted with the cliché idea of wearing trench coats over lingerie, but finally settled on wearing street clothes over our lingerie and making the final decision on whether or not to get naked at the door of the party.

The amount of alcohol present and the pressure to drink was a bit disconcerting. I’m sure at a more legitimate orgy party, the free flow of booze would have been frowned upon. Consent is absolutely key in any sort of sexual behavior and an orgy party is no different. But no one was so incapacitated to my knowledge that they no longer knew what they were doing.

Once inside the party house, I had to laugh. It looked like a teenager’s interpretation of a cheesy strip club: the lights were dimmed and covered with red Saran wrap, so a red glow covered the room. We took our prerequisite shots at the door and then entered. The walls were covered with printed-out tips on how to perform the most outrageous sex positions, probably only realistic for yoga teachers or Olympic gymnasts.images (7)

Also taped to the walls were female condoms and packets of lube, while wrapped male condoms hung from the ceiling on pieces of string (okay, so maybe not entirely like a cheesy strip club). I’ve always been an advocate of safer sex — especially since an orgy suggests sex with total strangers — so the protective offerings were a comforting sight to me. All you had to do was grab your favorite prophylactic and whisk your lucky sexual partner into one of the many side rooms that lined the hallway.

At least, that was the theory of the party. In practice, the dynamic was more awkward than I’d imagined. Granted, my only prior experience of orgies was in porn, where the sex is so unrealistic — laughable even. No pizza delivery guy just happens to show up at a slumber party where the girls forgot cash and have to resort to other forms of payment. Turns out real life and real sex is nothing like porn — even at an orgy.

In other words, there was just as much flirtation and innuendo and small talk as there was sex. And even at an orgy — or, perhaps I should say, even at a college orgy — it’s not particularly comfortable to approach a stranger for sex. The thought of rejection is always a hanging possibility. So the conversations weren’t much different from any other college party — the only difference being that the girls’ clothing ranged from barely there lingerie to flimsy dresses to dominatrix suits, while the boys wore mainly underwear — let’s just say I’ve seen enough Calvin Klein boxers and briefs to design their next spring line. No one was brave enough to socialize naked.

Still, some people managed to overcome the awkwardness — out of the corner of my eye I watched attractive strangers enter side rooms down the hallway, some in twos, some in threes, some in mores. My friend soon disappeared with her boyfriend. Meanwhile, I stood near the makeshift bar and asked for a cranberry and vodka while scanning the room. Nothing like liquid courage to help the process of finding someone to bed.images (4)

I started chatting to one guy and the awkwardness dissipated once he realized that I just wanted to talk for a bit — at least until chemistry had been established or ruled out. Until, that is, he pointed at my arm and said “Hey… is that a rash or something?” I panicked — had I somehow caught herpes by just being in this environment?

My entire body was breaking out in hives and my throat started to feel itchy. I looked at my drink and then back at the makeshift bar. I spotted the cranberry juice… that was actually cranberry-strawberry juice. I was having an allergic reaction at an orgy.

Needless to say, my motley appearance didn’t exactly draw huge crowds of cute boys. More importantly, I was on the verge of dying without my EpiPen. Exiting the orgy at a run, I hailed the first cab I saw and headed to my friend’s dorm to be rescued by my EpiPen.

After I had thoroughly examined my rash, I sat down and contemplated my night. I was disappointed at my early departure — allergic to an orgy, how embarrassing! — but, in retrospect, I don’t think most orgies actually work this way. First, there was far too much alcohol. Second, although I have no doubt that many people had sex that night, I’m not sure it was completely stranger sex (for the most part, all the people at the party attended the same university). Finally, I think that orgy sex, like all good sex, requires a degree of comfort and communication to be established before the fact. And that’s just not something you get at a boozy college party, no matter how many condoms are hanging from the ceiling.images (3)

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How sex work has replaced a bar job for students who struggle to bills, loans and university fees

Undergraduates have traditionally pulled pints or waited tables to pay their way through university, but a growing body of research suggests that a significant number are now turning to sex work to make ends meet.images (4)

The rise in fees which will see some students graduate with projected debts of up to £53,000 at the end of their course is being blamed for persuading young women and men to take up pole dancing, escort work or even prostitution. Experts say that university welfare officers are largely ignorant of the growing phenomenon and poorly equipped to deal with issues arising from young people’s involvement.

Research by Dr Ron Roberts, of the University of Kingston, published in 2010 suggested that one in four students know someone who had worked in the sex industry to fund their studies – up from three per cent in 1990. Dr Roberts found 16 per cent would consider working in the industry while more than one in 10 were open to the idea of being an escort.

images (3)Research by Teela Sanders and Kate Hardy, of the University of Leeds, found that a quarter of lap dancers had a degree whilst a third of the women they interviewed were using the job to fund new forms of training.

Much of the expansion over the decade was to do with the proliferation of lap dancing clubs. But the internet also threw up a new range of opportunities for anonymous sex work.

But although the idea of the middle-class sex worker has gained media currency – not least through the highly publicised exploits of Belle de Jour, otherwise known as Dr Brooke Magnanti, a 34-year-old research scientist – the reality can be very different.

In the Leeds study, women reported physical and verbal harassment from customers as they were forced to work in dangerous conditions.

Dr Tracey Sagar, of Swansea University, who is running a three-year project to provide advice and support to student sex workers in Wales, said the authorities were still waking up to the shift in student work patterns.

“Universities are not dealing with this issue. It is not on the radar of welfare or support organisations within education,” she said. The SponsorA Scholar.co.uk site appears to cater to those seeking the so-called “girlfriend” experience where sex can be accompanied by an emotional intimacy. Ms Sagar said that many sex sites flagged up a student’s educational status which was often desirable to potential clients.images (5)

SponsorAScholar.co.uk uses a variety of images of women and glowing testimonials claiming to come from satisfied customers which it is feared could attract young women struggling financially.

The website claims that most of the sponsors are “men between the ages of 28 and 50 who run their own successful business and want to have discreet adventures with a student whilst helping them fund their studies through a scholarship”. It even suggests the amount is tax deductible.

images (2)However, opponents say that the unequal power relationship between sex worker and client leaves particularly women open to sexual exploitation whilst safety groups have warned women against going off with people they do not know.

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Top 10 Fascinating Facts About Sex

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Weightloss

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Fascinating Fact: Sexual acts lead to weight loss

The average human loses 26 calories when kissing for a minute. Furthermore, vigorous sex for half an hour burns 150 calories (you can lose three pounds in a year – if you have sex 7 to 8 times a month). Kissing is also very good for your teeth: the extra saliva released during the act helps to keep the mouth clean – reducing the risk of decay.

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Pubic Wigs

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Fascinating Fact: In Victorian times, whores wore pubic wigs

The pubic wig (merkin) has been around since the 1400s when it was originally worn by women who had shaved their pubic hair off to prevent lice. In the Victorian times it was frequently worn by prostitutes who wanted to conceal the fact that they had diseases like syphilis (Honest – we aren’t merkin’ this up). They are also used in the film industry to conceal actors genitals in nude scenes.

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Condoms

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Fascinating Fact: Condoms were originally made of animal intestines or linen

In Asia before the fifteenth century, some use of glans condoms (devices covering only the head of the penis) is recorded. In China, glans condoms may have been made of oiled silk paper, or of lamb intestines. In Japan, they were made of tortoise shell or animal horn (ouch). In the 16th century, condoms were often made with linen sheaths soaked in a chemical solution and allowed to dry before use. The cloths were sized to cover the glans of the penis, and were held on with a ribbon. Pictured above is an animal intestine condom from the early 1900s.

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Fascinating Fact: Sex cures headaches

Next time your significant other refuses your advances by claiming to have a headache, remember this fact: the sex act can help to cure a headache. Sex causes the body to release endorphins which naturally reduce the pain of a headache.

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Skin Care

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Fascinating Fact: Sperm is good for the skin

The proteins in sperm have a tightening effect on the skin. When sperm is left to dry, the evaporation of the water in it leaves behind protein which can help to reduce wrinkles. While this may be an excellent anti-aging treatment, the obvious downside is that you have to walk around with sperm on your face.

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Pubic Hair

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Fascinating Fact: Pubic hair is programmed to grow a certain amount

All hair on the body is controlled by a “growth program” which determines the growth duration (and consequently the length) of hair. Pubic hair has a shorter growth duration (on average just a few months) compared to hair on the head. This is what stops pubic hair growing to unmanageable lengths.

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Blowsy Gal

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Fascinating Fact: The term “blow job” comes from the Victorian times

In Victorian times, a slang term for a prostitute was “blowsy”. At the same time, “blow” was slang for ejaculation. Consequently, by the 1930s, the act of fellatio came to be known as a blow job. It was also used to describe jet planes in World War Two. In Ancient Greece, the common slang for a blow job was “playing the flute”.

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Male Porn

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Fascinating Fact: Men looking at male porn produce more sperm

Studies have shown that men who looked at porn of two men and one woman produced more sperm than those who looked at just women. Scientists speculate that seeing competition makes men step up their baby-making capacities.

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Sex For Fun

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Fascinating Fact: Humans aren’t the only creatures to have sex for fun.

Humans aren’t the only members of the animal kingdom that have sex just for fun. Dolphins and Bonobo chimps have also been observed engaging in sexual activity, when they are not in their natural reproductive cycles. With the exception of a pair of Cohan gorillas observed doing so, bonobos are the only non-human animal to have been observed engaging in all of the following sexual activities: face-to-face genital sex, tongue kissing, and oral sex. When Bonobos come upon a new food source or feeding ground, the increased excitement will usually lead to communal sexual activity, presumably decreasing tension and allowing for peaceful feeding. Interestingly, Bonobo chimps also play and experience joy like humans.

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Animal Prostitution

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Fascinating Fact: Some female penguins engage in prostitution

Believe it or not, in the wild, certain female penguins (even when in a committed relationship) will exchange sexual favors with strange males for the pebbles they need to build their nests. According to Dr Fiona Hunter (a zoologist): “It tends to be females targeting single males, otherwise the partner female would beat the intruder up.” On some occasions the prostitute penguins trick the males. They carry out the elaborate courtship ritual, which usually leads to mating. Having bagged their stone, they would then run off.

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Looking For A Few Good Women – Exotic Dancers Wanted – At Tasteful Temptations Agency 888-285-2489

Exotic Dancers Wanted – At Tasteful Temptations Agency – Make Several Hundred Per Hour Dancing – Base Plus Tips Offered Per Show
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At Tasteful Temptations we book exotic entertainment for private parties for all occasions, including bachelor parties, bachelorette parties, birthday parties, sporting events, surprise strip — o — grams, and corporate functions.

We are looking for entertainers that have it all; good looks talent, imagination and originality that they incorporate into their performance. Reliability, honesty, and a friendly outgoing personality are a must. Our dancers are entertainers. They are not there just to take their clothes off. They are fully aware that they are the entertainment, the highlight of each special occasion. It is extremely important to us that our customers get what they paid for and expect — attractive, hassle free, classy, and friendly entertainment that is on time and professional.

No experience is necessary. If you feel you have the good looks and personality for the job, we will arrange for you to go watch as many shows as you need before giving it a try. We always suggest you try performing for the first time for a song or two at another entertainer’s show after they have performed. But not until you yourself decide you want to. This is a great way to get rid of the jitters that most new dancers have. Customers are usually very nice and enjoy being your first audience and the other girl / guy is there to help you and encourage the crowd.

We offer absolutely the highest salary in this industry, in a safe, fun & upscale environment. The dancers that work with us average $200 – $500 including their tips for a 1 hour show! In addition we offer immediate hire with flexible hours. Our models have the opportunity to be on our high traffic website http://www.funwildstrippers.com offering you added exposure. Our website is visited frequently by the major men’s magazines, TV Shows, radio shows, other agencies, internet companies & photographers seeking models for various projects.
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If this interests you and you are still reading this, then please email us your on line application, attach a photo if possible, or give us a call. You are not obligated to take the job. You make the decision after speaking to us and or seeing a few shows. This is a fantastic way to make a lot of money for the right individuals. All inquiries and interviews are strictly confidential. College students, single moms, or just a weekend job to provide extra income. Whatever your motivation, just contact us and get any questions you may have answered. We look forward to meeting you.

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Tasteful Temptations Fun Wild Strippers Atlantic City Guide To Throwing the Perfect Bachelor Party

 

 

The Guest List

The best place to start is by comprising a guest list. Why? Because you will need to know how many guests you will have, to figure out a budget, and get a general consensus of a plan. However – do not “over” invite just to try to save some money. Most importantly, never invite anyone who the bachelor can not relax and be himself around. It is his last day to let loose and you should only have friends around that will support his actions (however inappropriate they may be). Never invite the bride’s father, brother, cousin, or any friends of the bride. What happens at the bachelor party stays at the bachelor party! Stay on top of your guest list. Call them, text them, and or email them to make sure everyone is coming. Make sure no one leaks the name of the place to anyone who would not be invited to such an event. I think you know who they are.

 

Location

Ok, now we need a location. Most restaurants and bars have a private party room for events available. When choosing such an establishment, make sure you explain to the manager that you wish to have a bachelor party with exotic dancers. Many places do not allow strippers or adult entertainment in their facility so you must be clear that is your intention. Also it is a good idea to ask if they are experienced in hosting bachelor parties at their location. This is so they are prepared with things like music for the strippers to dance to, and a place for them to dance and change into their exotic dancer costumes.

 

 

Entertainment

Now that you have the guest list and a party room reserved, the next step is to book exotic dancers. Here is the link. http://www.funwildstrippers.com

is an adult entertainment booking agency that specializes in supplying sexy female exotic dancers for bachelor parties. We will help you decide what type of exotic entertainment is right for you and your guests. Perhaps you would like to start your show with a novelty act such as an overweight Stripper, or even a midget stripper or dwarf stripper to perform a striptease. We can follow that performance with a few gorgeous Centerfold female strippers who will take it all off for you! We can then follow that up with our girl on girl lesbian show, lapdances, and plenty of bachelor party games to keep the party entertained.

 

Checklist For The Day Of The Bachelor Party

  • Confirm with the venue has everything is set for your event
  • Bring a change of clothes for the bachelor. (Yes really)
  • Visit a bank and exchange larger bills for singles, five and tens for tipping your exotic dancers. Strippers work for tips and are motivated by them. The best way to give the gratuities is during the show. Make it rain! I do not recommend waiting till the end of the party to tip.
  • Tell your guests to turn off all cell phones and put them away. Show a little respect for your buddy and his new stripper friends.
  • Also tell them NOT TO TAKE PHOTOS. One way to end the party quickly is to take out a cell phone or camera. The bachelor party strippers will run for cover and /or maybe even leave. I doubt the bachelor will appreciate that as well.
  • As each guest enters the party, collect his share of the money that he owes. The entertainers will need to collect their fee before they start the performance and if they have to wait, it will cut into your time not theirs. So always have their cash ready for when the exotic dancers arrive at the bachelor party.
  • Communicate with the exotic dancers when they arrive if there are any special requests, or if the bachelor has any physical limitations.
  • Your adult entertainers may arrive early or have spare time between shows. They would love to sit down with your party, so make them feel welcome. Offer the exotic dancers some food and beverages, including some non-alcoholic selections. Take no offense when they refuse offers of liquor or drugs. Please understand that bottled water is usually preferred over hard liquor when they’re wearing six-inch heels and dodging your crazy friends from high school. Remember, it is their job to strip and your job to party.

After The Party

  • Tip Everyone – Bartenders, Servers, Bouncers, anyone who worked the event. They probably all hate some of your crazy friends right now and this will ease the pain and allow you to come back again to their establishment.
  • Don’t let guest’s drink and drive. Offer to drive home any inebriated guests, get them a cab, or insist they stay over.
  • Tuck your boy in – Nighty Night.

The Day After

  • Reward yourself for a job well done!
  • Recover.
  • Help the Bachelor Recover.
  • Try to figure out whose thong is in your pocket.
  • Send us a review of your party to info@funwildstrippers.com

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Inside The Exotic Dancer Or “Stripper”

stripper is a professional erotic dancer who performs a contemporary form of striptease at strip club establishments, public exhibitions, and private engagements. Unlike in burlesque, the performer in the modern Americanized form of stripping minimizes the interaction of customer and dancer, reducing the importance of tease in the performance in favor of speed to undress.[1] Not every stripper will end her performance completely nude, though full nudity is common where not prohibited by law. The integration of the stripper pole as a nearly ubiquitous prop has also shifted the emphasis in the performance toward a more acrobatic, explicit expression versus the slow-developing burlesque. Stripping is typically associated with female performers; male strippers make up less than a third of the professional community.[2] Strippers, when working, are typically found at strip clubs. House dancers work for a particular club or franchiseFeature dancers tend to have their own celebrity, touring a club circuit making appearances. Entertainers (dancers) are often not actual employees of the club itself but allowed to perform as independent contractors.

Recent history

The image of strippers as known today evolved through the late 1960’s and 1970s in the U.S. and international cultures which 2pic12embraced Americanized striptease, introduced into popular culture by the genre-defining performances of Carol Doda. By the 1980s, the pole dancing and highly explicit imagery associated with today’s performers was widely accepted and frequently portrayed in film, television, and theater. In a bikini performance, both breasts and genital areas typically remain covered by revealing attire while dancers provide services and entertainment. Go-go dancers will retain their tops and bottoms for the duration of their performance. A stripper whose upper body is exposed but the genital areas remain obscured during a performance is said to be topless. Not all strippers are comfortable dancing topless. Strippers who uncover the genital areas along with other clothing during a performance are said to be dancing full nude. The practice is banned in many jurisdictions, but many dancers will work around the constraints but selectively uncovering her vulvaanus, or both for short periods of time then replacing the clothing. As with topless dancing, not all strippers are comfortable dancing full nude.

Touching of strippers is not permitted in many localities. However, some dancers and clubs allow touching of dancers during private dances. If permitted, during a lap dance the dancer grinds against the customer’s crotch while he or she (typically he) remains clothed in an attempt to arouse or bring the recipient to climax.[3] In parts of the USA, there are laws forbidding the exposure of female nipples, which have to be covered by pasties by the dancer.[4] Research suggests that exotic dancing can pay well, but often at a significant cost[5] to the stripper. The reason for this is because of the negative stigma associated with exotic dancing. Dancers use props such as make-up, clothing, costumes, and appealing fragrances to complete their character and maintain their “front“. Research on linkages between lesbianism and stripping, still classified as deviant behavior in conservative social climates, has asserted that “some exotic dancers become lesbians because of their isolation from effective social relationships and their overall dissatisfaction with males”.[6]

Performers are called strippersexotic dancers or just dancers, or entertainers. Another name for a stripper is an ecdysiastic dancer or simply an ecdysiast.[7] Many reasons have been cited as to why women become exotic dancers; however, the overriding motivation is to make money. The more attractive the dancer, the more business she generates. Therefore, beauty and sexuality act as the currency in this profession. There are no job prerequisites to become an exotic dancer. Formal training is minimal, primarily on the job and provided by more senior dancers. Dancers learn a set of rules, such as: never leave money unattended; never leave the club with a customer; and never refuse a table dance. As long as she can “sell” herself, she is capable of becoming an exotic dancer.[2]

Exotic dancer on stage inside a club

Inside the club

Strippers, when working, are most likely to be found at strip clubs. An essential draw of the strip club is the live entertainment, which the vast majority of the time are the strippers. Dancers effectively entertaining customers are the key to generating revenue by keeping the customers on site and enticing them to be repeat visitors. House dancers work for a particular club or franchiseFeature dancers tend to have their own celebrity, touring a club circuit making appearances. Porn stars will often become feature dancers to earn extra income and build their fan base. High profile adult film performers Jenna Haze and Teagan Presley among others have participated in feature shows through the USA, as did now-retired stars such as Jenna Jameson. Entertainers (dancers) are often not actual employees of the club itself but allowed to perform as independent contractors for predetermined house fee.

During each set of one or more songs, the current performer will dance on stage in exchange for tips. Where legal (or legal restrictions 2pic8are ignored), dancers may offer additional services such as lap dances or a trip to the champagne room for a set fee rather than a tip. Strippers can be contracted for performances outside of the strip club environment. Some strippers will only strip for private engagements and do not have a regular affiliation with a strip club. Much like activities inside the club, different dancers have different comfort levels for services they will provide during a private party. Aside from advertising for striptease services outside of the club, an unknown percentage of strippers also work in other aspects of the sex industry. This can include erotic and nude modelingpornographyescorting, and in some cases prostitution. Outside of the U.S. the use of strip clubs to facilitate sex for hire is much more common, and stripping is viewed in those settings as advertising for sexually-oriented services performed in private areas of the club or off premises.

Stage performance

Most clubs have a dancer rotation where each dancer in turn will perform for one or more songs in a fixed sequence which repeats during a shift. More informal clubs will have dancers take turns when a stage becomes empty or have a free flow of entertainers where the stage has any number of entertainers who wander off and on at will. Feature entertainers are not usually part of the rotation, and have set times where they will perform that are advertised throughout the shift. If a DJ is present, he or she will emcee the rotation and typically announce the current dancer(s) on stage and possibly who to expect in future sets.

Tip collection

During each set of one or more songs, the current performer will dance on stage in exchange for tips. Dancers collect tips from customers either while on stage or after the dancer has finished a stage show and is mingling with the audience. A customary tip (where customers can do so at the stage) is a dollar bill folded lengthwise and placed in the dancer’s garter from the tip rail. Other common tip methods are to insert the dollar into the stripper’s cleavage from the hand or mouth, to simply place it or toss it on stage, or more directly to crumple bills into a ball shape and throw them in the direction of the entertainer. Tipping during a stage performance is prohibited by some clubs due to restrictions in local ordinance or past incidents on the premises. Each club and dancer will have individual tolerance levels for customer interaction including tipping. Some clubs will have multiple stages on the premises that dancers will move between, but typically the dancer would collect for her time on the main stage during a rotation. Tips can also be collected during private dances.

Private dance

Where legal (or legal restrictions are ignored), dancers may offer additional services such as lap dances or a trip to the champagne room for a set fee rather than a tip. This fee will typically include a set fee for the room, for a set amount of time. Private dances in the main club areas most often take the form of table danceslap and couch dances, and bed dances among others. An air dance is a particular form of private dance where little to no contact between the dancer and customer occurs. This class of dance spans the different categories above, and some dancers can perform air dances when more contact heavy forms of dance were expected and paid for.

Table dances are distinguished from other forms of dances in that they can be performed where the customer is seated on the main 2pic16floor. Table dances also refer to a form of minimal touch private dance where the performer is physical located on a small table in front of the customer(s). Table dances should not be confused with table stages, where the stripper is at or above eye level on a platform surrounded by chairs and usually enough table surface for customers to place drinks and tip money. These stages are configured for close viewing of the striptease and are known for dancers lowering themselves from the stage onto customers during their set.

Lap dances can be (and are) performed in all manner of seating, ranging from plain stools and kitchen-grade chairs to plush leather armchairs. They can also be performed with the customer standing in these designated areas. A service provided by many clubs is for a customer to be placed on stage with one or more dancers for a public lap dance. Occasions for this type of performance are bachelor parties and birthdays in the club among others. Bed dances are designed for the customer to be lying down with the entertainer(s) positioned on top of them. Bed dancesare the least common of the three, and in many clubs are a more expensive option than a lap dance because of the novelty and increased level of contact between customer and service provider.

champagne room (also called a champagne lounge, or champagne court) is a specialized VIP Room service offered by gentleman’s clubs where a customer can purchase time (usually in half-hour increments) with an exotic dancer in a private room on the premises. Depending on the quality of the club, the room, which is away from the hustle and bustle of the main club, is well decorated and usually has its own bar. Clubs sell champagne by the glass or by the bottle for both the dancer and the customer. Strippers who have multiple trips to VIP in a given shift will often give their portion of the alcohol to other dancers or customers to reduce the amount they are drinking themselves.

Outside of the club

Strippers can be contracted for performances outside of the strip club environment. Some strippers will only strip for private engagements and do not have a regular affiliation with a strip club.

Bachelor parties

Main article: Bachelor party

A stripper working at a bachelor party

bachelor party may involve activities beyond the usual party and social gathering ingredients (often drinking alcohol and gambling), such as going to a strip club or hiring a stripper to perform in a private setting like a home or hotel. In some traditions more hazing-like tests and pranks at the future groom’s expense, which shows the whole thing is also a rite of passage from bachelorhood (associated with an adolescent lifestyle, often in the common past of most participants, e.g. in their student years) to “more responsible” marital life. These pranks can involve a stripper if the entertainer is willing. Increasingly, bachelor parties have come to symbolize the last time when the groom is free of the influence of his new wife. It has also become common for a similar party to be held for the bride-to-be. This is known as a bachelorette party or Hen party. Some also chose instead to hold a so-called Stag and Doe party in the US or a hag party or hag do in the UK (“hag” being a combination of the words “hen” and “stag”), in which both the bride and groom attend. The female equivalent of a stag party in Canada is often known as a “stagette”, “doe” or “bachelorette”.

Private parties

Private parties are popular events for which to hire strippers. There are many entertainment businesses that have strippers contracted for private performances. Some of these companies have a national presence, with strippers contracted in multiple states and some 2pic19who work regionally over a multi-state area. Strippers will also do side work and handle their own agreements and payment arrangements. Written agreements are atypical in this type of transaction unless a formal, registered business is involved. They could also travel over significant (i.e. flight required) distances for private events and appointments, most of the time passing the cost of travel and accommodations onto the customer. Patrons at the clubs in which the strippers work are a primary source of customers for their work outside of the club. Much like activities inside the club, different dancers have different comfort levels for services they will provide during a private party.

Performance

While working a stripper is not necessarily required to remove all of his or her clothing. For any of the three types of clubs there are exceptions based on the individual dancer and management, and clubs are classified based on typical performances, zoning, and advertised services.

Bikini (Go-Go)

Main article: Go-Go dancing

In a bikini performance, both breasts and genital areas typically remain covered by revealing attire while providing services and entertainment. Go-go dancers will retain their tops and bottoms for the duration of their performance. What differentiates a bikini dancer from other types of performers is the degree to which her body is exposed. Some restaurants offer attractive waitstaff in revealing outfits, but the uniform may not reveal the midriff or expose the back. They would also have more coverage in the pelvic area than you would see on a typical go-go performer.

The stripper, in the case of a bikini performance, may begin with layers of clothing over top of the bikini which then would be removed during the course of the dance set. When a bikini performance is being performed, many dancers will forgo a garter because they can accept tips at various points in their outfit (typically above the thigh or over their ribcage). A bikini performance is far more likely to be performed by a female than a male given social norms throughout the world. It has been debated whether or not bikini clubs and performances should count as striptease, but there is little contention over its classification as exotic dance. The phrase Go-Go was adopted by bars in the 1960s in TokyoJapan. It was of lesser reputation until it was appropriated byAmerican burlesque and striptease establishments, which in turn became known as go-go bars and the women working there known as Go-Go dancers.

In many clubs, while a stripper is walking the floor she will be required to wear her full bikini top and bottom. When a stripper performs personal services (such as lap or bed dances) where she comes into contact with a customer, she would also be required to remain in her bikini in more restrictive club environments. Private dances in particular are scrutinized to ensure that no club policies or local ordinances are being violated during the performance. The additional clothing also acts as a deterrent to prevent a customer from exceeding the boundaries set by a particular dancer. On 19 June 1964, Carol Doda began go-go dancing topless at the Condor Club on Broadway and Columbus in the North Beach neighborhood of San Francisco. She became the world‘s most famous go-go dancer, and a prototype for the modern stripper, while dancing at the Condor for 22 years.

Topless

Main article: Toplessness

Women are at times employed in adult-only venues to perform or pose topless in forms of commercial erotic entertainment. Such venues can range from downmarket strip clubs to upmarketcabarets, such as the Moulin Rouge. A stripper whose upper body is exposed but the genital areas remain obscured during a performance is said to be topless. Topless entertainment may also include competitions such as wet T-shirt contests in which women display their breasts through translucent wet fabric—and may end up removing their T-shirts before the audience. Strippers can engage in these alternate topless activities at sanctioned times inside the club or as independent contractors at outside venues. Not all strippers are comfortable dancing topless. In areas where choice in formats exist, exotic dancers express concern that the more they offer in their performance (nudity included) the more they stand to profit.

Even the dancers that will go topless have been known to stay covered during a dance during slow periods in the club with few customers. This is particularly true if the customers do not appear to be engaged or actively tipping because they are not being compensated for their time on stage. The practice of topless dancing is banned in many jurisdictions, but strippers have been known to work around the constraints but selectively uncovering her breasts “peek-a-boo” style for short periods of time then replacing the clothing. For a male dancer, a bare chest is not considered in the same light and does not face the same legal restrictions. During a show where customer tipping is permitted, most strip clubs limit contact with a dancer’s breasts to one way from the dancer to customer. Many clubs do not allow any breast contact, and some go so far as to place markers on stage that a dancer is not permitted to cross while nude. This physical separation enforcescompliance with the no touch policy.

Full nudity

A fully nude stripper

Strippers who uncover the genital areas along with other clothing during a performance are said to be dancing fully nude. The practice is banned in many jurisdictions, but many dancers will work around the constraints by selectively uncovering her vulvaanus, or both for short periods of time then replacing the clothing. For a male dancer, exposing the penis or anus is equivalent. Many dancers prefer to leave their clothing on their bodies once they have shifted them from their private areas. In some cases this disguises blemishes or areas of their figure they are not comfortable with, or could simply be to prevent those parts of the outfit from being misplaced.

Not all strippers are comfortable dancing full nude. If viewed as a continuum, fewer dancers will dance topless than go-go and fewer still would dance fully nude. It has been reported when in direct competition with more conservative offerings, fully nude formats are seen by customers as a superior enough substitute for them to switch clubs.[9] In areas where choice in formats exist, exotic dancers express concern that the more they offer in their performance (nudity included) the more they stand to profit. Still, strippers have been known to dance only at topless clubs because of their desire not to strip completely nude.[10] Some clubs permit both nude stage dancing and fully nude lap dances. Where nude private dances are allowed with contact, some dancers choose to place some type of barrier (cloth or occasionally plastic) over the customer’s lap as a precautionary measure.

Social factors

Stripper archetype represented in graffition a street in London, England

There is no one “stripper lifestyle” where all striptease practitioners fit neatly into a single stereotype. There is, however, an archetypal commonality in their presentation and the experience performers face on the job. The impact of these experiences are far reaching, and can continue to affect how the stripper approaches aspects of her life long after her days of actively stripping have concluded. Research on strippers has examined erotic dancing as a type of sex work in larger sociocultural context, gender, sex roles, and perceived appropriateness of behavior. Findings include that while both men and women prefer sex in a relationship, men are more accepting of casual intimacy and sex than women. The male sexual desire being more likely to allow for casual sex makes men more susceptible to the fantasy intimacy that exotic dancers sell than a female audience. Women tend to fantasize about partners and relationships, while men are more commonly contented through lust and physical gratification that strippers can offer through personal attention or possibly private dances.[2]

Work-life balance

Research suggests that exotic dancing can pay well, but often at a significant cost[5] to the stripper. The reason for this is because of the negative stigma associated with exotic dancing. When revealing one’s occupation, a person may be seeking immediate social acceptance from others. However, when an occupation is considered illegal, immoral, or improper, social acceptance is not granted.[19] Dancers manage this stigma by “divid[ing] the social world” by only revealing part of their identity.[20] By revealing only a part of their identity, strippers attempt to avoid being characterized by the stigmatizing attributes associated with exotic dancing.[2] Within the context of the strip club, dancers sometimes give the impression that they are revealing private information, or backstage information to a customer in order to play the confidence game for increased profit.[8]

A customer often wants a dancer to “drop the act,” which makes him feel special and desired.[5][21] Dancers are aware of this customer desire for increased confidence, and a dancer therefore will give off the impression that a customer is seeing her true self, when in reality it is just part of her act.[21] Dancers also maintain their “front” by creating a carefully crafted illusion of attractiveness and sexual appeal for customers in the club. Dancers use props such as make-up, clothing, costumes, and appealing fragrances to complete their character. Customers rarely if ever see the preparation of these props; they are denied access to the backstage of a dancer’s performance through the layout of the club.[8] Though the experience as a stripper has been documented in journalistic and academic research to have lasting negative impacts on practitioners, being a stripper does not preclude a balanced life while in the business or personally satisfying future.

Boundaries and etiquette

Performers backstage tending to their props away from the audience

Outside of the club, dancers are indistinguishable by appearance from the general population and no more likely to be the targets of acts like violent crime than similar females.[22] Inside the club personal boundaries are frequently crossed between strippers, customers, and other club staff. Research indicates that at some point a dancer has felt exploited by customersmanagement, or other dancers. The most common complaint from dancers is being portrayed as an object or instrument rather than a person.[6][23] While dancers feel this exploitation, and are affected by it, they also admit to exploiting their customers.[24] The dancers are using the customers for money, employing all of the resources at their disposal to do so. They sell the fantasy of sex but do not typically follow through with the act. Interviews with strippers have revealed that the customers are generally viewed as “suckers” for giving the dancers money just for their physical attraction.[24] Dancers, in an attempt to acquire a tip or monetary reward, will sell more than attractiveness and fantasy. They portray feelings of intimacy and emotional connectedness for their customers, and most of the time they are overstated or false.[25] This stage persona is different than who they are backstage, even if it incorporates aspects which mirror their true personality.[2]

Sexuality and gender bias

Strip clubs have a reputation for deviant activity, such as illegal drug use and prostitution. By association exotic dancing is generally considered deviant as well. Research on linkages between lesbianism and stripping, still classified as deviant behavior in conservative social climates, has asserted that “some exotic dancers become lesbians because of their isolation from effective social relationships and their overall dissatisfaction with males”.[6]Women enhance and broaden their sexual activities through lesbian relationships, then carry those attributes into their workplace personas.[23] Female exotic dancers are continually exploited in the club, if not outside as well by men. As a result they may develop hostile and frigid attitudes towards men,[26] potentially finding greater sexual fulfillment in lesbian relationships.[27]

Ethnographic research has observed that strippers, regardless of sexual preference, have a tendency to treat female customers differently than males. Because of the non-physical motivations ascribed to female intimacy, dancers select women to approach who are smiling and sitting comfortably with open body language such as uncrossed arms, actively participating with the crowd, laughing and engaging with fellow customers, and applauding for dancers at the main stage also increase the likelihood they will be approached. Dancers tend to avoid women with unfriendly facial expressions or visibly hostile body language, again regardless of sexual preference. In order to become approached, men must indicate financial potential through their appearance. Women must actively demonstrate their good attitude and willingness to participate in club activities. At that point, a woman’s perceived profitability is also a factor in a dancer’s decision to approach a female patron. The presence of male companionship has been cited in research as an indicator used by dancers to gauge the profitability of a female once she is perceived to be a customer.[8]

Strippers and the law

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Erotic performer with handcuffs acrossbosom

From ancient times to the present day, striptease has been considered a form of public nudity and subject to legal and cultural prohibitions on moraland decency grounds. Many U.S. jurisdictions have specific laws on the books related to striptease, with more being added increasing both complexity of enforcement and impact. For example, the classification of dancers as independent contractors has been challenged in court, successfully in Massachusetts[28][29] in July 2009. One of the more notorious local ordinances is San Diego Municipal Code 33.3610,[30] specific and strict in response to allegations of corruption among local officials[31] which included contacts in the nude entertainment industry. Among its provisions is the “six foot rule”, copied by other municipalities in requiring that dancers maintain a six foot distance while performing.

Touching of strippers is illegal in many U.S. states. However, some dancers and some clubs condone touching of dancers during private dances. This touching often includes the fondling of breasts, buttocks, and in rare cases the vaginal region. In some locales, dancers may give a customer a “lap dance”, whereby the dancer grinds against the customer’s crotch while he is fully clothed in an attempt to arouse him or bring him to climax. Other rules forbid “full nudity”. In some parts of the USA, there are laws forbidding the exposure of female nipples, which have thus to be covered by pasties by the dancer (though not applied to the exposure of male nipples). In early 2010, the U.S. city of Detroit, Michigan banned fully exposed breasts in its strip clubs, following the example of Houston, Texas who began enforcing a similar ordinance in 2008.[4] The Detroit city council has since softened the rules eliminating the requirement for pasties[32] but kept other restrictions. Both municipalities were reputed to have rampant occurrences of illicit activity including prostitution linked to its striptease establishments[33][34] within their city limits.

In Britain in the 1930s, when the Windmill Theatre, London, began to present nude shows, British law prohibited performers moving whilst in a state of nudity.[35] To get around that rule, models appeared naked in stationary tableaux vivants. To keep within the law, sometimes devices were used which rotated the models without them moving themselves. Fan dances were another device used to keep performances within the law. These allowed a naked dancer’s body to be concealed by her fans or those of her attendants, until the end of an act, when she posed naked for a brief interval whilst standing stock still, and the lights went out or the curtain dropped to allow her to leave the stage.

In 2010, Iceland outlawed striptease.[36] Johanna Sigurðardottir, Iceland’s prime minister, who is an open lesbian,[37][38] said: “The Nordic countries are leading the way on women’s equality, recognizing women as equal citizens rather than commodities for sale.”[39] The politician behind the bill, Kolbrún Halldórsdóttir, said: “It is not acceptable that women or people in general are a product to be sold.”[39]

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Make a Woman Feel Sexually Attracted to You

Having the ability to really make a woman feel sexually attracted to you is usually what ends up making the difference in whether or not you end up hooking up with a woman or you end up going home alone for the night. Since most guys have way more experience with going home for the night, it’s probably not a bad idea to spend some time figuring out what it is that you need to do to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you so that you don’t have to worry about that happening to you.images

Here are 3 tips for making a woman feel sexually attracted to you that will turn her on and definitely make it more likely that you end up hooking up versus going home alone for the night:

1. The things that you say are often not nearly as important as the way that you make a woman feel.

Quite often, I think that guys make the mistake of thinking that they have to always say the right things to make a woman want them. While it is important that you say the right things, it’s far more important that you make her feel the right way. Knowing how to make a woman feel like she really wants you is going to make you a lot more successful than trying to figure out how to convince her that she should want you.

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2. You won’t make her feel sexually attracted to you if you put yourself in the friend zone with her.

This is something that most guys end up doing and then they wonder why they aren’t able to actually hook up with a woman that they are attracted to. You can’t put yourself in the friend zone with a woman and then expect that she is going to see you as a guy she wants to end up in bed with. It’s just not going to happen if you do that.

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3. Being able to make her feel like she is with a guy who knows how to please her is also going to make you a lot more likely to turn her on at the end of the night.

You don’t want to appear awkward like you are the kind of guy who doesn’t really know what he is doing when it comes to pleasing a woman. You want to appear more confident so that she does get the impression that she is going to enjoy being with you. Do that and your odds of ending up with her instead of going home alone are going to jump through the roof.